Going from being a fag to a fag hag is a fucking trip, man. For Ladyfag, who got started when no one wanted to come to Brooklyn to party, the tables have turned. Los Angeles—based lesbian writer and comedian Chingy L spoke to Allure via telephone about casual sex and the obstacles facing queer women and nonbinary people who just want hookups.
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The collective energy all focused on pleasure creates a palpable singularity, a carnal brotherhood that is a force beyond the sum of its parts. The monthly party described above, which was called Harder at the time I went, was like many current New York sex-party offerings: It promised a semi-public space to men who want to indulge drinking, dancing, or fucking, but certainly the fucking.
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Until then though, queer people are still finding ways to have casual sexual encounters. I got mine from that Eric Clapton song. While being open about my desires got me dozens of matches, I found I had to sustain conversations with multiple people over the course of a few weeks before anything went anywhere.