By using neutral pronouns and descriptors in the way I speak, am I being politically sensitive or just cultivating misperception? And nothing more. But I agree that judging someone for their attractions, desires, passions and preferences is the wrong way to open up this conversation.
I said something similar without reading your comment first. The poll is ridiculous. Nothing new for site. DavidIntl I greatly respect the right of everyone to be, and act, as they are — and I can count anyone among my friends.
Maybe you could be real for once. People always think I like shopping! Honestly associating mannerisms with tastes is kind of dumb if you ask me. Louis Once again Queerty blocks my comment while they allow commenters like Triforce and Masc Idiot to make personal attacks.
Now everyone at my highschool knows me all the freshmen, most the sophomores, some juniors, most seniors and not ONCE have I heard someone complain about my feminine, gay nature. You are passive-aggressive to such an extreme extent.
Bwhiff Reading the different comments just serves to let me know that we all have a perspective. Both were blunt, one-dimensional and hateful. He also seemed to have hang ups about how not many people perceive me as gay right away, whereas his voice gives him away instantly although there are tons of straight men with gay sounding voices.
The Gay I ve seen femme gay guys trying to act more look may have gone out of fashion, but homophobic slurs that feel inherently femmephobic never have: "sissy," "nancy," "nelly," "fairy," "faggy. Why is it very flamboyant or "feminine" men are still looked down on by some in the gay community?
Funniest fukking thing I heard all day.
Today it seems that more people are pushing back against themselves. Ross, a year-old queer person from Glasgow, says he's experienced anti-femme abuse on dating apps from guys that he hasn't even sent a message to.
Tech news. Gay means you are attracted to someone of the same sex; after that you can figure out how you want to decorate your own cake and if you find someone willing to eat it and you are happy to eat theirs…that is a WIN WIN…everything else is just looks of noise that keeps you from cooking in the kitchen of life.
Explainer videos. Most of the conversation here like many of the long-winded comment sections is too one-note and too mired in assumptions, vagueness, defensiveness and resentment to go anywhere.